Women Seeking Men: Profiling the Online Profile

2018-10-05T11:06:21-06:00September 26th, 2018|Dating and Love|

So, you’ve taken the leap to creating a profile and are ready to meet someone new. As a veteran and interminable optimist of the online dating world, I have a bit of wisdom that may help with your search. A little about me: I divorced when I was [...]

Slow

2018-10-05T11:06:26-06:00August 28th, 2018|Dating and Love|

“Just one more thing, I promise,” Henry said, patting my knee, “and then I’ll be done.” My eyes followed the crack in the windshield, a circuitous etch, which I’d been bugging him for months to get fixed, and which had meandered even more since the last time I [...]

Against Advising the Recently Divorced

2018-10-05T11:06:32-06:00July 25th, 2018|Dating and Love|

It is popular to offer advice to the newly divorced by those who have been through it. There are maxims that most of us should heed, but I don’t know how many really do. I never picked up a self-help book about the do’s and don’ts of dating [...]

Ride or Die

2018-10-05T11:06:36-06:00June 22nd, 2018|Dating and Love|

The next man in my life didn’t need to be the one and we didn’t need to last forever. I had no checklist. I had no plan. I wanted three things: attraction, distraction and comfort. My dad had died over the summer, my ex-husband had just been delivered [...]